The Final Casino Conversation
Jamie Lynn Sigler recalled her last conversation with James Gandolfini took place at a casino. Gandolfini asked her directly, 'Do you need help walking?' When Sigler responded that she was okay in that moment, Gandolfini replied, 'All right, you tell me if you do.' Sigler agreed she would. She described the exchange as a beautiful moment for which she remained very grateful, particularly given how shocking his death was to everyone.
Gandolfini's Exclusive Knowledge of Her MS
Gandolfini was the only member of The Sopranos cast who knew Sigler had been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. Even before she disclosed her condition to him, Gandolfini sensed something was happening with her. Sigler recalled that he had a perceptive way about him, looking at her long enough to convey 'I know you. I know something's going on,' but he never pressed her for information. When she asked how he was, he would simply look at her and nod. Having someone on set know her secret proved to be a game changer for Sigler, allowing her to feel less alone.
Gandolfini's Supportive Nature
During their final conversation, Gandolfini displayed pride in Sigler's resilience. He said to her, 'OK, look at you. You're still doing this. You've got this.' Off-screen, Gandolfini was known to Sigler as gentle and caring, in contrast to the tough mafia boss character Tony Soprano he played. Sigler remembered him as the pillar and rock of The Sopranos cast, always acting as the dad figure to the ensemble.
Gandolfini's Happiness at the Time
In their final encounter, Sigler observed that Gandolfini appeared very happy. She was glad to see him in a beautiful marriage to Deborah Lin and in a good creative space doing things he truly loved. Playing Tony Soprano had been difficult and torturous for Gandolfini, requiring him to give every ounce of himself. Seeing him settled and happy brought joy to Sigler. Both of them seemed to share a moment of mutual understanding, as if saying to each other, 'We're good right now. Look at us. We're doing good.'
Context and Timing
Sigler revealed these details about her final conversation with Gandolfini while promoting her memoir 'And So It Is...: A Memoir of Acceptance and Hope.' Gandolfini died in 2013 from a heart attack while vacationing in Italy with his family at age 51. Sigler had been diagnosed with MS at age 20, approximately halfway through The Sopranos' six-season run, and kept it secret until going public with her health struggles in 2016, nearly three years after Gandolfini's death. 
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